This is peeking around the corner at the ferry dock and ferries – not the entrance.
This is as I am walking up to the ferry station. The bus stop is there in front of it.
It has been over a week since I wrote! I just got hung up on other things and read “Becoming Madame Mao” – loved it. Let’s see what is on my mind…?
CLASSES
Angsana is great. I love the small class size (was 6 / 5 now) but really sad to see my Indonesian student ( a chef) drop out. He had a family emergency so he had to leave the country. He studied really hard and I liked him for that. The Japanese woman is great to have there since I feel at ease with her and another student is serious and I like that. Two others seem unhappy and one is a clown of sorts. I like them all but wish the two would be happy to be there. They are the youngest though.
Banyan Tree is a full class; I think there are 12. I am happy I just about have their names down! Only 2 of them I get confused still. It is interesting that the two Thai women don’t know many of the words that Maldivians know. It is good though having the Maldivians try to explain things (ex: “kidney” or “liver”). And it is interesting to note several times how against alcohol the Maldivians basically are. Of course it is illegal here and against Islam, but they have to serve it at the resorts. Some wrote that they hate serving it and yesterday one of them was pointing at everyone shaking his finger saying, “Liver disease! Don’t drink! Don’t drink!” I wish one student wouldn’t be so annoying in class! The levels are only slightly mixed but I wish we could separate by age sometimes…I have an old man in that class, and he is lost but with the young guy acting stupid and yelling things it is difficult for him to catch what is important unless I write it on the board.
Bandos is different and I am far from remembering all of their names! I started there during my 3rd week and I am about to start my fifth week here. I think it is a 3 or 4 star resort, I hear the pay is lower than my other resorts, and the overall ability of these workers seems to be lower. Even their manners are not as strong as at my other resorts. Half the students are polite, thoughtful towards me, have great manners, and can catch what they should be doing in class, but the other half do not fit that description. So, I think it is interesting to realize the hiring standards and important to know what kind of company you will work for! If I were a worker, I would want to be at the other 2 resorts where they apparently train the staff better, are more selective in hiring, and they take better care of the workers (like nicer boats to ride in). Oh, and I think it opened in 1974 and is the 2nd oldest resort in Maldives.
I think I mentioned this before, but the Maldivians I am working with seem to understand a lot of English less some vocabulary here and there. But their production is iffy. They get the structure and tenses mixed up a lot. Verb agreement is weak. I guess that can be said of many ESL learners, but it seems more true than in Japan.
Two huge differences from Japan are the acceptable behavior in class and the creativity. You tell them to make up a story about a picture (or you don’t want them to and they still will!) and they will just come up with all kinds of things! “She is looking for a husband.” Always: “He was playing soccer, and…”, “It’s a lamb in the back seat of the car.”, and so forth. It is funny to hear their ideas when I wouldn’t have thought such things at all! And the Japanese were not creative or perhaps they just wouldn’t speak if they did have ideas. And about talking, they are not shy! They are loud and want to be heard above anyone else! It is a nice change from Japan in those ways, but they don’t know how to take turns, be polite to let weaker students try, or even how to do “typical” exercises. For example, there was a Word Bank. They couldn’t comprehend taking a word from it and filling in the sentences. I would show them how to cross off the first word and then look for another word, but that wasn’t getting through the first day! They would just want to think up their own words and answers! I think they all have it now. But, it is interesting to see that activities we used in Japan or America are not typical here. Someone told me that they are used to just sitting and being lectured to and not doing exercises to think. I am not sure.
That brings me to another lesson I have learned (and should have learned years ago but think it has finally really sunken in) – DO NOT believe everything other people observe! Sadly, I guess that means you can’t trust all I am telling you either, but everyone seems to have their take on what is true in this world, and then I find it is not like what I was told. I won’t give examples here, but it is true. Everyone has their reality that they see. And those beliefs help them (me too) make sense of the world or help in the functioning there within, but it might not be fact or more likely, just not even 80% true… So, I am taking what people say into consideration, but no longer believing it out right.
EXPATS
I met some more people. Sarah the editor of Maldivian Traveler met me for dinner and brought her new colleague Neil. They are both from the U.K. and I couldn’t catch 20% of what they said! I had to ask them to repeat several times and it was work to follow them! Funny that we speak English but yet it can be so difficult to understand!
Sarah knows everything about Maldives it feels like! She has had to go to resorts, restaurants, and spas so she could do write ups on them! She hates massages, so she is like “I had to go.” – and she is complaining! Tomorrow they are spending 24 hrs at a resort as extras for a German drama being filmed!! They get to ride a sea plane, get meals, and paid $60! I wanted to go but they didn’t need anymore and I am not sure I had the clothes for the scenes since I only brought island type things – not something for a dinner party or white party. There are 2 more days of filming in Male, but I have to work those days. I could use the money though! Oh, we went to another new restaurant for me – Ailoi I think it was. It was really nice looking with good food that was in the $8-$15 range (fairly high for this country). But, I just can’t handle these outdoor cafes yet. I was just sweating all thru dinner yet the others seemed to be fine…
The Swedish guy that went to the Picnic Island with his family and all of us is now teaching 2 classes at Bandos too instead of Piper I think. He says the level is good for him since English is not his first language. He was a scuba and psychology teacher before I understood, but he said it is hard to get a job in scuba if you are not willing to live at the resorts. He has only been diving twice since here! Sad but without money, this place isn’t so great I think!
Speaking of that Sarah is suggesting many things we can do – places to eat, resorts to go to, but I feel I have to turn it down mostly since it is all money…You can drop $20 a meal easily here and though that wasn’t much before, it is when you don’t know when you will get real money again…and I forgot, I haven’t even bought a ticket to leave here! That was $1,200 to fly in, so maybe I need at least that to get out! I can see savings are slowly draining…
I guess I knew the financial side of this when I came, but I am disappointed since I imagined this to be a working vacation of sorts, so I thought it was worth it to pay the airfare plus insurance and such since I would have to pay something similar for a vacation too. But, this hasn’t been the dream I imagined. Perhaps if I had come with a friend it would have been a blast even without money, but trying to bond with new people for a short time or doing things alone (plus all the issues I have – see”Health” below) make it not the dream working vacation I had envisioned.
OBSERVATIONS
I wish I would take pictures of the average people on the street, but I feel shy to take random photos of them. Maybe I will one day. Here in Hulhumale, it is different than Male where there are crowds of people and I would just be one of many tourists. But here I stand out since it seems to be more like a community where everyone knows each other. I wish you could see it here though since the women’s clothing is varied yet almost all adhere to some form of the Islamic rules.
Someone asked why people stood around on the corners. I am not sure. I think they work but maybe they are on break? They own their own business so they have workers working instead? They have a day off? I am not sure.
And why don’t I go to Male when it is dark if it is so hot to sightsee in the day? I was told that drugs and violence are a problem there and if I am alone and happen onto a street without many people, I can be robbed or attacked for money, so I was told to only go to places I know by taxi. So, I don’t go for that reason, AND it is still miserably hot at night! It really doesn’t change much though you don’t have the sun beating down on you.
I did wonder another block over as I waited for my boat and found the National Museum (tiny building!) and the Sultan’s Park which must have been fantastic in its day, but not it is crumbling and overgrown with weeds through the cement and such. I heard it was best to take a translator to the museum, but I may go some day.
There seems to be more clouds every day. It hasn’t rained much yet but I guess it is gearing up for rainy season? However, someone told me that last year it didn’t rain during the usual rainy season so it was a problem. Tourist avoided the time they expected it and came when it did actually hit! He said you can see the climate changes affecting this area in such ways. And the bleaching of the coral is bad. My student said it is sad to look out and see the heat bleaching it so badly and slowly killing it off.
I feel I have a hard time adjusting to life here for many reasons but those include the music. All my music I brought just doesn’t fit in! I try listening to Salsa, Beach Boys, hip-hop, 1950’s - 2006, or ANYTHING and it just feels totally out of place. I am sure that sounds silly to think about such things, but it really is strange. I am in a totally foreign place where I don’t think they have ever heard the music I know and I don’t know what I am hearing at times during the commute. Their music fits! It is like Arabic, Turkish or something. I guess I should buy some, but I just don’t want to spend the money or try to figure out how to download it. But, it sounds fitting and all my music just doesn’t belong with what I see visually. Strange that would be true.
APARTMENT
Mixed feelings – It looks nice and is nicer than some places I lived in America, but the quality is so poor. I worry the chair I sit on will break one day since it sways, the bed has spots all over it that poke me, the fixtures in the bathroom have or are almost black though they should be silver, the AC isn’t incredible, and you just never know about bugs. And this is a brand new place with brand new furniture. But, I am happy to have my own place, and it feels western in some aspects of design and some of the furnishings. Japan’s apartments were better in some ways and worse in others. But I miss my kitchen and shower in Japan! It was so easy to care for there.
Clothes dry fast! Within 3 hours things are dry in here with the ceiling fan on and windows closed at least.
Piper lent me a hair dryer this week and I look forward to using it. Tiffany will loan me an iron and I hope I can manage without an ironing board. I really needed the iron. I have a pot and skillet, but still no gas to cook with. That’s okay though. I don’t want to spend time on food preparation though it might be cheaper than eating out? And I have some fresh things we bought in Male, but I don’t have storage jars to put them in when I cut them, so I am just trying to eat anything I open / cut at once. I invested in so much in Japan and left it (same in America), and I know I am not here long, so I just don’t want to invest in lots of items (and in cases like Japan – have the trouble of getting rid of it all when I move!).
HEALTH
Oh, the problems…I am tired of not feeling well. The most troublesome are my feet I assume for extreme walking or I guess it is from wearing shoe styles I am not used to. Luckily there aren’t hills I have to walk here though! But, the center of the heels hurt with every step. The left ankle hurts when I bend it sometimes (especially Tuesday I didn’t know how I was going to go to work Wednesday) and the shin is sensitive to the touch. I think I have a spider bite on the back of my leg since there are clusters of bumps. I didn’t wear long sleeves or sun block Wednesday and although I used my umbrella, I have Braille arms from reaction to the sun. There are small bumps on my scalp for 3 weeks. I can’t seem to stop sweating even when I am sitting in the night for over an hour. The water tastes bad to me and even the brand I did like now tastes bad to me. Trying to get fresh fruits and vegetables is a huge ordeal in Male that may or may not end in finding what I want. After like 5 stores Monday we found a browning cluster of broccoli. We never found spinach - and not one good avocado or soy milk. I haven’t been able to sleep again. When I first came I was able to get 8 hours of sleep, but now I am having trouble again. And I could go on with more issues but…the point: I am not cut out for “roughing it”, for wearing sandals, or for being flexible. Japan was always hard for me too since you can’t just go and buy kale or berries or anything you want. These experiences are making me think that America is just incredible and VERY privileged! Maybe the U.K. or other places are too; I haven’t been so I can’t comment. But the cities in America are amazing if you are at least middle class.
OTHER
I am bummed that I have to go exchange the last of my dollars I can afford to spare. My old student from Japan is flying through the airport though and I want to try and see her even if just for a few minutes. So, the 10 cents I have won’t get me to the airport! Oh no…I can’t pull up her airline to check the arrival time…I hate to go out there and wait and wait if she was delayed and I don’t know it…will have to wait almost 2 hours as it is…
Thankfully the Internet is working again on my PC. It stopped last night right when I finally reached my mom after several days! That was disappointing.
Jean’s last day is next Thursday. There’s a going away party for him Saturday night.